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Adventures in CT!

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Connecticut…the state where there’s a gazebo in every town. Like, EVERY town. I stopped taking pictures after the fifth one I spotted. Now, you may be wondering what a Canuck like me was doing in a place like Connecticut. That’s an excellent question and I’m glad you asked. Firstly, to visit Washington Depot–the town that inspired Stars Hollow, the setting for my beloved Gilmore Girls.

Here are a few Gilmore-esque shots I snapped in the adorable town:

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The back of The Mayflower Grace, a luxury boutique resort that I couldn’t afford to even step inside, but the nice valet let me snap exterior pics to my heart’s content!
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This is one of the cutest bookshops I’ve ever seen! I can just picture Andrew inside doing inventory.
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Lorelai’s house, right? Right?? I hope these folks didn’t mind the crazy lady parked at the end of their driveway taking pics.
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One of the charming gazebos along the way. This shot was taken in New Milford, a town just outside of Washington Depot.

But if you think my only purpose for being in CT was to visit Washington Depot, you are oh-so mistaken, my friends, for there was an even greater purpose: Fiction Fest! Also, it was a perfect reason for me to take a road trip in my new SUV, Mr. Bubba Gump. I’m only 7.5 hours away from Norwalk, CT, where the FF writing conference was held, or 8 hours if you include the stops for gas and PayDay bars.

Let’s talk for a bit about Fiction Fest, shall we? It. Was. AWESOME! And, ya know, I kinda knew it would be, but it WAY surpassed my expectations. I arrived at the conference hotel late Thursday evening, slept there till Friday, but then I had to relocate to the overflow hotel for the remainder of the conference. I was kinda bummed about that, initially…until I stepped foot inside Even Hotel. OMG, you guys. It was a Phys. Ed. teacher’s dream come true! Lime and ginger infused water stations, exercise balls, resistance bands, and a yoga corner in every room. A mood light! A white board! A weight room with state of the art equipment, bikes you could ride off-property, and a games room with a ping-pong table that I may or may not have caused to collapse on top of my foot (but that’s another story for another time). I’m so glad I had all these things to keep me occupied, because I was nervous as heck all day Friday. Why, you ask? Because Kristan Higgins, New York Times bestselling author, queen of romantic comedy, and all-around lovely lady invited me to dinner that night.

I somehow charmed her last year when she joined my Ottawa Romance Writers of America group for our 25th anniversary celebration. I think it was my Ellen dancing story that sealed the deal, or possibly the tale I shared about the fancy pair of underwear I owned that disappeared during an airport security check, and how I was flattered by that. Ahem. And since that glorious day, Kristan has become one of my dearest friends. She’s helped me through a lot of rough patches this year, and I’m eternally grateful to her for that alone. But talking on the internets and talking face-to-face are two very different kinds of talky-talking, hence my nervousness.

Truthfully, I had nothing to worry about.

Kristan is the type of person who I can sit down with and never run out of things to say. In fact, we talked for so long that I ended up getting a parking ticket (Bubba’s first! So proud!). She also helped me to parallel park him for the first time, too. I won’t say how many attempts it took. It’s harder with an audience….

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Here we are together again! I <3 her!

Regrettably, we parted ways that night, but I was comforted knowing I’d see her again the next day, and the one after that.

Saturday was my busy day at the conference. I’d registered for a critique with an agent, as well as a round-table session with an editor, and planned to attend several workshops, too. The critique went amazingly well! I totally hit it off with the agent I was paired with. She gave me tremendous feedback, and she insisted I keep in touch with her and use the subject line ‘Gilmore Girls’ in my email. Why, yes, we did get to talking about GG. *whistles*

The round-table experience was really cool. I was seated at a table with six other participants, an author/reader, and an editor.  The author/reader read the first page of each of our manuscripts, including the tagline of the story, the genre, and word count, and then the editor provided feedback. It was meant to be an anonymous thing, but as soon as she started reading mine, and everyone leaned in closer, I wanted them all to know it was mine, damn it! I was thrilled when everyone at the table kept asking me questions about it, all of them wanting to know more. What an awesome feeling! 🙂

I can’t say enough about the workshops I attended. They were all fabulous and so informative! Of course, I snagged a front row seat in Kristan’s workshop about bringing characters to life, a la the Frankenstein method. It was just a great day all around, that turned even greater when Kristan asked if I wanted to join her, Damon Suede, and Geoff Symon for dinner that night. Um…YES! When the time came, we all met in the lobby and headed to a place called The Spread. *nods* For reals. Here’s proof:

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I had such a blast with these guys! We decided to share all kinds of appetizer-y things, and Geoff convinced Kristan and I that we had to try the beef tongue. After all, we were in Spread…Let the dirty jokes commence! So here we are, tonguing in Spread:

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Was it good for you, Kristan? 😉

I felt like the coolest person on the planet getting to hang out with these beautiful, wonderful, creative people. When can we do it again? I’ll gas up Bubba and be there in a jiffy! Oh, and Ottawa is lovely in the fall. Just putting that out there….

Breakfast and lunch were included in the conference registration, and during each of these meals, on both days, I was able to meet and eat with some kick-ass people. Conferences are a terrific way to make new friends.

On Sunday, I attended three more workshops, enjoyed one last lunch, and then it was time for me to hit the road, but not before I squeezed Kristan a few more times. During my drive back to Ottawa, I kept thinking how lucky I was to get to experience all this. I’m so inspired, invigorated, ready to write like the wind! Thank you again to Kristan, Damon, Geoff, and all the other amazing people I met who made this conference the best one I’ve ever been to! Connecticut, I will most definitely be back! 🙂

8 thoughts on “Adventures in CT!”

  1. Michelle Kelly says:

    I read your update twice! I was grinning and I am so thrilled for you! Love road trips! Excellent pictures.

    1. Julie Evelyn Joyce says:

      😀 Now I’M grinning! Thanks, my Canadian sistah! It was an unforgettable trip!

  2. Laurie says:

    Sounds like you had a fabulous time doing all the writer-y stuff. I’m glad you got to hang out with Kristan.

    1. Julie Evelyn Joyce says:

      I did indeed! I’m glad too! She’s the coolest of the cool! 😀

  3. Margaret Ethridge says:

    I’m so happy you had such a great time! I can’t wait to mine every gory little detail!

    1. Julie Evelyn Joyce says:

      LOL! Thank you! And I can’t wait to hear about all your aquatic adventures, stingray charmer! 😉

  4. Carol says:

    I’m so happy you had this amazing experience to maybe help balance out some of the lows from the past year. You are such a brave young woman. While so many would find excuses not to travel to a strange place on their own, you embrace the challenges and end up with memories that will last you a life time. To say I’m proud of you barely scratches the surface of my regard. (Why do I suddenly sound like Mr. Darcy?) Anyway, I hope that the result of your hard work will be something magical, like all of your wishes coming true! My fingers are crossed!

    1. Julie Evelyn Joyce says:

      Awww, A-M! You’re gonna make me cry! I’m really proud of myself for driving all that way on my own, and putting myself out there (sometimes that’s hard even for extroverts), and jumping into this adventure with both feet. I love you so much for all your support–here, on G-chat, on FB, on my old blog, and in person. You really are so dear to me and I’m so grateful to have you in my life! xoxo

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